IMPORTANCE OF GOOD MANNERS IN ISLAM
The importance of good manners in Islam is of utmost significance and is deeply rooted in the teachings of the faith. Good manners, also known as “akhlaq” or “adab,” hold a central place in the lives of Muslims and are considered integral to practicing a devout and righteous way of life. Numerous facets underscore the significance of good manners in Islam. The Holy Prophet (SAW) expounded on the value of good manners in one of His hadith, stating:
“Nothing is weightier on the Scale of Deeds than one’s good manners” (Bukhari).
Allah Almighty made Him (SAW) the best and perfect example for the people and sent him only for the purpose of perfecting good morals. The virtues of good manners are seen in various other hadiths which point to the good character that is pleasing to Allah Almighty and His Messenger Prophet Muhammad (SAW). Prophet Muhammad (SAW) reminded in other hadith that,
“The most beloved of Allah’s servants to Allah are those with the best manners.” (Al-Bukhari)
The embodiment of humility, compassion, and empathy in interpersonal interactions is exemplified through good manners. Prophet Muhammad (SAW) serves as a prime model of these attributes, treating all individuals with respect and kindness, regardless of their social standing.
Exhibiting good manners encompasses demonstrating reverence for parents and elders, extending kindness and empathy to children, and displaying consideration for neighbors. Acts like visiting the ailing and refraining from evil behaviors such as gossip and slander are integral to practicing good manners. Allah loves those who possess these great qualities.
Respect for parents and elders is another cornerstone of Islamic teachings. The Quran repeatedly emphasizes the duty of children to be dutiful and respectful towards their parents, regardless of the circumstances. Good manners dictate that one should speak to their parents and elders with gentleness, listen attentively and offer assistance and support whenever needed. By honoring and showing kindness to parents and elders, Muslims demonstrate their commitment to the teachings of Islam and contribute to the maintenance of strong family bonds.
Good manners and a sense of morality can prevent us from falling into sin. Allah Almighty says in the Noble Quran,
“Verily, in the Messenger of Allah (SAW), you have a noble pattern to emulate for those who anticipate the encounter with Allah and the Hereafter, and who engage in frequent remembrance of Allah.”(Quran, 33:21).
There is no one in a good manner than our beloved Prophet Muhammad (SAW). Allah Almighty says in Holy Quran,
“And indeed, you are of a great moral character” (Quran, 68:4).
A Muslim can’t be a true Muslim if he does all kinds of worship, i.e. prayer, fast, zakat, pilgrimage etc. in the best way but neglects an important side of his worship i.e. Adab or good manners. A person who offers his daily prayers in mosques timely and in a proper way, but when it comes to dealing with other people in his daily life he is the worst person, cannot be considered a true Muslim.
The Holy Prophet (SAW) says, “The believers most perfect in faith are those best in character.” (Tirmidhi)
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